This past week, I was sitting in a meeting and I had a notebook with me. Perusing through what random ideas I had written in this book I came across a few pages sparked my interest. I had stumbled upon some writing I did while on a flight back from California, during the flight I wrote down everything I could remember from the trip I was just finishing up. Good bad or seemingly insignificant I wanted to make sure I retained as much of the trip I could. People talk about making memories, but what about keeping those memories.
Last month while I was in Bowling Green at tournament I got a message from my friend Don, “Make sure to take pictures you will want them later.” I used to make make fun of people who always had their cameras out, or people who journaled about what they were doing, but in the past few months I’ve been switching my thoughts. While I still think a lot of the staged photos are cheesy and really touristy, I do think photos can help us capture a moment, and when we see them we can remember the feeling and the experience around that single image. A journal though helps capture thoughts, lessons, emotions with a lot more detail for you to glean insight going forward.
While the doing of the thing is fun in and of itself, the memories are what adds true value into our lives. Memories give us last joy reminiscing telling stories, and connecting with other people’s memories is a source of long lasting joy beyond the initial event. keeping track of memories also is a helpful learning tool going forward. K.J. Nybo is known for having a notebook where he logs all of his shots on different course so he knows his tendencies, where he wants to play from, and where to positions himself. Having a connection to the past helps us relive the joys and learn going forward.
How are you keeping our memories?